I believe Nap summed up most peoples feelings fairly well.
As for this:
2) Yes, I understand that the idea of a name change in the future is extremely daunting to some. Taco N Banana is a community most of us here grew up with, and seriously trust me when I say I don't particularly enjoy that there's going to come a day where we don't see it anymore. It's time to face some hard truths though: this community has existed since 2007, and it's not been aging particularly well. A brief look through the forums says all it needs to. It's filled with extreme strife and extreme negativity at just about every corner. Moving on from the name, all of its baggage, and trying our hands with some new things opens many doors for the community that literally wouldn't be possible otherwise.
I believe this is somewhat incorrect. I don't want to target anyone in specific, especially people I call or have called friends, but the reason this community hasn't been aging well is because of inept server direction and leadership issues. There have been a fair number of new people that come in, either they hadn't heard about TnB at all, or if they had they've been surprised that this community is different than they've been told. Changing out the name isnt gonna bring in the people that already hate TnB, because they'll just figure that out and still think what they want to think. We need to change what they think about it, because of course their opinions arent gonna change because we have done the same thing over and over again, we need to be expanding into other settings, gamemodes, and games even if its just in a small way or for short time periods; and I think that is a great step forward, but these other changes put forth have shackled that one down like an anchor.
I've been playing on a lot of smaller servers and I see what they've done well, but bringing up all of that in this thread isn't the place for it currently. The stigma around TnB is currently like that because we've allowed it to be that way. Just 6 years ago when TRP2 launched, TnB was still highly successful, even through its ups and downs with drama there was still a large number of people who loved it. People have been shit talking TnB for near enough two decades, and all throughout that we've had success. The simple fact of the matter is that we aren't successful because people don't remember how to be successful, as cheesy as that sounds.
Reiterating what Nap said:
it's almost laughable how I constantly see folks who leave and divide the community get rewarded when they come back. Again, no personal feelings there I'm just calling what I see.
I don't at all mind the people put in as community leadership as creators/writers, I have things I like and dislike about them, but that's besides the point. Them being
involved in a server is a fantastic idea, but leadership was not the right choice. If we could simply get a good team together, and (no offense) not put people in leadership positions who have created/brought drama and politics into the community; then just put together something at least different than what TnB has been doing, I think we could actually make a great server. We have had an overabundance of fantastic writers and creators that just need to be done justice and personally spoken to, so they might actually want to do something for TnB.
I have no idea if what I've said will have an impact at all, but I'll be clear: I do
not wish to drive away Skyrim, Mox (Cindy), and Tanknut, I want to work with them as they are talented creators in all their own ways.